C’mon, get happy!

29 Jan

I thought I’d have a go at the Spin assignment and this week it’s Happiness.

A little part of me wishes it were as simple as the Patridge Family make it seem. A whole lotta lovin’? You gotta be kiddin’! Tho I had a little crush on one of the boys.

Just to continue the irritation:

OK, now I’ve got that out of my system, here’s a philosophy on happiness.

You don’t get to be happy all the time. There are no guarantees. Happiness sneaks up like a cat on soft paws and jumps in your lap with an unexpected weight (and joy!). It is in the small moments. Sometimes it’s in a surprise. Sometimes it’s in the big moments, though meeting those big events with an expectation of happiness to be there can end up in a big let-down.

You can’t rely on another person to be the source of your happiness. You can create happy moments for yourself and also hope that you will give some happy moments for others.

Happiness is not the be-all and end-all of existence, but it sure beats a lot of other things. As a depressive, I learnt to appreciate and love the sweet moments of grace through unexpected happiness – shafts of sunlight in a grey life. These graces kept me going in hard times.


Posted by on January 29, 2010 in Defies description, Life Matters


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2 responses to “C’mon, get happy!

  1. Sprite's Keeper

    January 29, 2010 at 1:05 pm

    You are completely right. You can’t rely on someone else for your happiness. You have to make your own, just double the recipie so you have more to share. 🙂
    Great Spin, you’re linked!

  2. Laufa

    January 30, 2010 at 5:51 am

    Welcome to the Spin! It’s good to be able to recognize those happy moments – sunlight.


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